Make sure a man sees you as the prize.
We’re living in a world where everyone is infatuated with “the prize”, Someone who’s beautiful, charming, tall, and visually appealing. Ladies, you can have what you want in the world but be mindful of selecting a man for superficial needs. Question, how many “pretty boys” or “extremely attractive” men have you dated? How did it work out? In end was it worth it? What went wrong? If you’re in between relationships and doing some reflecting , I’m sure these are some of the questions you’ve asking yourself. In this article we’re going to get to the bottom of this. We’re going to answer these questions and much more.
Have you ever been out shopping or running errands and you see an “odd looking couple “. You see a beautiful woman with a not so attractive man, he’s average at best. When you see these couples the woman typically and visually always stand out. He’s carrying bags, you see this huge smile on his face and it seems like he adores her every move. You look at her and she’s HAPPY. You look at her and you can tell she she isn’t living a stressful life. Lol, well ladies this should always be the goal.
All men value what we deem “the prize”.
The goal for a woman should want to be the prize for said man. A man that see’s you as a prize will love you, stay loyal, sacrifice for you, he’ll provide, protect, take a bullet for you if needed. Ultimately this man isn’t going anywhere because you’re his prize. If a man can provide all of these qualities but he isn’t attractive by western society standards, would you accept him? Could you be the prize for this man? Maybe he doesn’t have swag, maybe he isn’t taller than you, he may have a gap tooth smile and a receding hairline but he has a heart of gold. This brother will actually treat you like a Queen, could you be his prize?
Now let’s talk about the “pretty boys” and “extremely attractive” men. Every woman desires a highly visually attractive man. These men definitely have their share of women–and rightfully so! How many of them commit for marriage or long term relationships? There’s exceptions for every rule but let’s be honest here. Said man has all of the attributes you look for in a man. He literally has every woman after him and he knows it. At this point he is the prize and women all over are competing for his love and attention. Is this a winning situation for you long term? Can you handle being second-fiddle to this man? Can you handle being in the shadows and not even noticed when you’re out and about with this man? Maybe fun for a while. But it isn’t a good long term strategy especially if marriage and family planning is the goal.
Looks aren’t everything, but character, morals, values, integrity is. Ladies, the world is yours. If marriage is the goal, always select the man who see’s you as the prize. A man that see’s you as the prize will do anything for you. How is that not a winning situation?
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