The husband as the protector and provider and the wife as the maker and keeper of the home is like the sun and the moon being in their rightful places, each one doing its job but both working together in a balanced fashion towards the mission of nation-building. A wife should not be made to work outside of the home (unless there are EMERGENT circumstances).
When the wife steps into the husband’s role as the provider, she risks the potential to inadvertently emasculate him, leaving him with feelings of impotence and inadequacy. This can result in a very precarious union between the husband and wife. An elite man is naturally, hard-wired to proudly work and provide for his family and is not seeking to share his divine obligation with his wife. He understands that he will be better taken care of by his wife when she is in her proper orbit which leads to greater success for the whole family. This is the prerequisite for generational wealth.
Working in the home protects the woman from the stresses of other people’s work schedules and other people’s demands and dominance over her time and life. When she is working at home, it preserves her femininity and it enables her to have more QUALITY time and energy for her family and domestic responsibilities. Moreover, being at home provides the wife with the freedom to be creative in her management of her time and her work. If a husband really wants to protect his wife, he should not force her to work where she will be under the authority and control of ANOTHER MAN. When he does that, he sets the stage for his own authority to be bucked at home by his bill-paying, corporate wife.
A REAL power couple is when the man and woman are in their rightful roles as instructed by the God. When those roles are properly fulfilled, it will bring harmony and blessings to the home, the entire family unit, the community and ultimately the nation.
Malikah Ali also says, The whole “It takes two incomes to make it” is a false narrative that the oppressor promotes to undermine the strength, harmony and natural order of the nuclear family.
The proletarian class unfortunately accepts that malarkey as truth not knowing that they are actually signing a contract for generational poverty often at the expense of their children being reared by the DEVIL.
If a man feels that he NEEDS a woman to assume his responsibility as the provider, that MAY put his qualification for marriage in question. Why would he assume the responsibility of a wife (and children) if he doesn’t have the sufficient means to do the job?
“The cost of living is ridiculous.”……
The cost of living can be expensive for SOME but adjustments can be made. Most people that make that argument are more than likely living beyond their means with plenty of extras that they can’t afford.
We all have choices, beloved.~Sacred Woman Malikah Ali, MGT 🙏🏾❤️
Written by Malikah Ali.
Malikah Ali, LCSW, CHHC, is a psychotherapist, plant-based nutritionist and a holistic health consultant who promotes the practice of Supreme Health.www.MalikahAli.com